A succint for a memorable Sept 10'

Sept is the most memorable month in my chambering period, is the most learned month to me.

I was giving an opportunity to follow a case with Yeo who provide every chance for me to take part in the civil proceeding. I was asked to interview our client by pretnding myself a opponent counsel. Although the outcome of my cross-examination did not satifying Yeo as usual, but i can see a little improvement in compare to my last trial. Then, I was also asked to follow Yeo to 2 days of trial. I've leraned a lot not only the way to conduct a full trial, 3 examination, how to open speech n close speech, how to assess judge to our stand, how to calm witness down when they are losing patient or temper, how to crave leave from judge for direction, how to object the opponent to posting irrelevant question,to produce the notes of evidence so on and so forth. Despite of that, I've learned from Yeo of interpersonal skills and ways of how to treat people nicer and sincere.

My admiration to him increased when he discern my personality and pointed out my shortcoming which are quite true. He said that because of i'm the youngest in the family, I've been pempered, being passive and do not know to take care of others which when I think deepened, I found that it is quite true. Of cause I was quite shocking wheh he said so, but I never felt angry or incomfortable at all. In contrary, I felt I'm such a lucky girl who met a good master and boss who willing to correct my weakness and want me to be a better person. This is something that I believed non of my coulleagues enjoyed the same benefit as me.

I've been invited to bear's nephew full moon celebration last 2 days. I was told that bear's brother-in-law doesnt click well with his mom. All in all, something revealed to me that, it is not easy to unite 2 different family by marriage. It can be easily seen through these occasion especially when the crystallization of two family occured. When both family doenst communicate well in certain matters, dispute become inevitable. However, such dispute seems to me redundant. When people care too much of how one give and take, it results in dispute.

I told Bear that, if i will have children next time, i will choose to take care myself because the children are mine, why burden our parents who at thier old age? Why confinement? Why eoropean doesnt do so but have their baby n mom survived??