Initially.. i shall think that my family was good n normal although lack of a role of dad in home. Gradually.. i found that.. due to the over independent trait that consisted in each of us..it result of a stress n impersonal family that without warm and care to each other. Gradually.. some of them forgot some fundamental thing tht should hv in between us in in order to keep firming our relationship to each other..slowly..i can found many of the thing will only spoke for the sake of own benefits rather than for the others good..my family had lost of trust, respect and sincerity among each others..thats why..i found i'm hardly to get close to others due to the consequence of my living environment.
After all.. i found that only me n first bro will think that my mom was the poorest in this family..first..she lost her husband in her early age. Her lacking of knowledge result in irrespective manner from bro n sis. I know.. she wont gv us good advice when we encounter sth which may temporary unsolved.However, i dun think we as her children shall blame her for anything due to our own prob. Here, i'm emphasize on respect to our parent. Maybe she gv wrong suggestion for us..but we cant blame her for that, coz we really need to stand on her perspective as mom who may at the stage of worry of her children but just lack of the skill to express what is her thinking toward us.Hence, we cant act so rude for her reaction when giving us suggestion that we may think is illogical. If u dun wanna hear..i will suggest u to keep quiet instead of gv so much of reaction that more to insult rather than explaining sth to her.
I dun like to see them too choosy for the food tht mom prepare for them..then if no cook for them then mom hv to bear the responsibility being scolded by them.what the fuck of this?? mom is not the maid tht u hire for ur daily needs, she oso need ur care instead of those bullshit or little $$ that u always do in few times. coz bullshit + $$ will never equalize with ur little respect and appreciation that she looking forward from u all.
Hate them when see them being so impersonal to mom.
Never ever lost ur mind to treasure ur dearly parent no matter how much u can gain in future.
You can be impersonal to others.. but..never ever to ur closest one.
For me,That is what a basic instinct of a natural human being will do...
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