Views of current situation..

There was an argument between me n bear yesterday. The main concern of the argument was the possibility of crash for his sis's wedding and the election day. For me, it is the responsibility for all malaysian to participate in this up coming election that will be a chance to give pressure to the current governing body. I was looking forward to make use of my vote to show my disagreement to the current government. However, thing may not as good as what i've expected. I found that God always try to challenge me recently. Perhaps, God knew that I'm poor in decision making, so that He wants me to determine something which is important for me. He wants me to choose whether to attend bear's sis wedding party for my responsibility as bear's partner, or to participate the election for my responsibility as a citizen of Malaysia. Both things consist of equal weight that more or less will influnce my future. I found that i'm in the dilemma to make an ideal choice.
Frankly, I thought that the thing will be easier to solve if one can understand each other. However, from his sober note , i think he will not tolerate with me to this matter. No doubt, guys always need his face more than everything and i believed that majority of my comrade will have the similar standpoint of mine toward guy's characteristic. Finally, we end up our conversation by leaving this matter unsolved yesterday. Therefore, i still need to choose between this 2 events.
I did think about the consequences of not attending each of the event, and i start to weight and compare the seriousness of the consequences that might occur.
Firstly, let's see the consequence of not attending the wedding ceremony. As what i've promise him recently, bear will definitely lost in confident to me and he may feel ashame to his family. Besides, I may leave a bad impression on his family especially his sister ( the bride ). From thier perspective, I may be a girl who lack of common courtesy and not respectable in his family.
On the other hand, the consequence of not particiapating the election seems not as serious as the former matter. However, it seems to disobey my own desire to do something and speak for my right to government in this coming election. Of cause, the governement wont change much because of my single vote owing to the popular myth that the election was just a method in form to show democracy exist in our country. But who know the truth?At least we did something, right? For my information, i'm the youngest badge in this coming election and i discovered that some of my comrades were not sensible about the important of election. It was quite suddens me. I know that they might already disappointed by government but they wouldnt know they have lost an opportunity to raise the awarness of governement in order to pay more attention to people's needs and our disagreement to certain policy that had exploited our rights. Inflation, release the prisoners on parole , rising of crime rates, unpractical construction projects, incompetency of Malaysia police workforce, judicial scandal and so forth were the obvious instances that sufficient to negate the current position of government by the up coming election.
Anyway, the above discussion is not the main concern of my problem. I hope that i'm able to make a prudent decision that can acheive win-win situation.