wat family affection mean?

The little Joannne was just like a small adult that know everything in adult world. What i've referred were those proper things but others which poisoned one's mind.
It was pity that she cant live in a normal environment as others children. Again, the violent events have been played during yesterday night that poisoned the mind of little one. I'm amazed that she could explain how her dad did to her mom in such a sober note n she was just 3 years old. She told me that she want a new daddy and i could sense that she had formed a bad impression to her dad in her small world. I'm really pity her n wanna gv her more love than her own family will gv her. From the newspaper today, I found that our society has produced a lot of unrational parent that harm the innocent children? I couldnt understand the reason for sacrifice those children for thier own unrational emotion?
Besides, i've oso lose my understanding of family affection from the incident that i've been thru today. Sometimes, i really cant understand my mom that she seems like really dont know what should say according to the certain situation tht had broken her daughter heart. I mean ..for me tht should be a basic human instinct that one person will try to console one who is sad or encounter any unsolved problem. But in my family, this basic instinct doesnt exist. For many time of different incidents. My mom will rather say something that escalating one depression instead of helping one to think optimistically. I'm not dare to tell this prob to my closest one coz dunno how to solve the questions that he might threw to me later.And i know his question will show me up and i'm not intend to show my family up too. Paradoxically, when my bro said to my sis that mom always treat everyone like tht without giving any effective advice, but he was the one who agree what mom had said n ask my mom dun bother her so much!? What the hell he was talking?
Last but not least, i just hope that I could hv a normal family members who know to care each other when one encounter any hardship outside the family. No matter how, FAMILY was the only station tht one shall depend on , especially in the most difficult situation. We should at least preserve those care tht we can gv to our frns for each of our family member, so that one will never be alone when sth had happened to him or her.