Stop Ruffling me again!

Yesterday, I've changed my perspective to him when he was trying to teach me the usage of english grammar according to my notes of proceedings. My perspective changed again when he was unreasonably asking me to walk to the High Court to check a case's numbers which was not there! I can still remembered, that was a raining afternoon when I first step out from the office! I keep thinking why he want to treat me like that? Is it because I spend him too much for the lunch due to the wrongly ordered meal? Is it because I've failed to provide a useful notes of proceedings, hence he wanted to give vain by treating me like this? If both are not possible, then why? At that moment, I was just assuming as if he was traning me, that it is.


Nonetheless, I begin to doubt my initial assumption. Today, I'm trying to bring a new me, a more cheerful of me to the office, and I decided to treat him nicer to pay some respect to him. I have even took initiative to ask him for lunch, yet, the later interaction with him disappointed me. During the lunch time, we were talking about the gamble's games such as "Cho Dai Di" and Poker. I said I know to play and I do enjoy the games. Then he starts being so assertive and said that "...is your family have gambling blood?" I was directly felt insulted by him, then I threw a question back to him with an uncomfortble tune that " What do you mean by "gambling blood"? Such an impolite and assumptive question did reffling me and I mind it! Later on, we talk about the Judge's gossip, meanwhile, Lien called me, I was having a telephone concersation with her while walking back to office with him, naturally he has lisstened to part of our conversation.

Then, he suddenly came into my room, closed up the door and telling to me that "Please do not disclose whatever we have talked among ourself, especially the Judge's gissip, please don't share with your chmbering mates." This is another disrespect way of communication. If you are really concerned on this matter, just keep it yourself and dont share in front of someone who you do not belive; or you do not trusted in. Why after saying all these ribbish, then come to tell the person that "Hey, Please do not disclosed ok, with a serious face!" Which is really annoying and not neccessary to me!

The combination of these 3 incidents making me to feel neccessary to re-evaluate him and his intention of wanting to teach me, which is now has been put into question????